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Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten
Look, if her trust is so easily lost then it wasn't her heart he broke but her pride. Entirely another thing altogether. He may not have actually "cheated" on her - they weren't ever married were they? It is entirely possible that she being vindictive just because she wants to get her pound of flesh off of him.
The game has got to stop - for the child's sake. Growing up in a toxic dysfunctional environment is NOT good. Like trying to grow up healthy and happy in a war zone. What the child is learning now is that THIS is how adults are supposed to act.
Yes, she should make up her mind to either get over it or leave.
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Evil - you need to understand that not everybody shares your views that "being exclusive" only comes with marriage. I'm not arguing against it, it's just that when someone is upset because the person they thought they were exclusive with turned out to be flat out lying to their face and messing around behind their back - what good does it do to say "Whats your problem? You're not even married, get over it."
Sure it's entirely possible she's just being vindictive because her pride was hurt, but it's also possible the guy she thought was trustworthy enough to have a baby with, turned out to be lying his ass off and has proven to be an incredible loser..and despite saying he's trying and has turned a new leaf, is still just as deceitful
The way Lil describes him - "he's tried everything!" ..doing everything but hanging him up on a cross to make him seem like a saint, leaves me to believe the guy IS a loser and very deceitful. My sympathy lies with the girl who was stupid enough to have the child with him..not the guy who cheats on the mother of his child. That's low and frankly pathetic that anyone would think HE'S the victim in this. And that he's being TOO nice to her? Come on!