Thanks Bouledoux. The challenge at this point is even getting to a point where we can talk about it. Its proving extremely difficult and I am beginning to think there are issues from the past which are contributing to her lack of interest and/or lack of willingness to open up. I am of course sensitive to this but in the meantime I think I'm going to crack up. In all other aspects we have a great bond/relationship and we do lots of non-sexual things together. I have made it clear that we need to get to the bottom of this or our relationship is going to suffer. She accepts that there is a problem so thats a start I guess.
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