[EvilEvilKitten]

NO NO NO

Nothing but face to face and heart to heart is going to change this.
You need to get SERIOUS and be seen by her as being SERIOUS which a letter - just another peice of paper that she'll read when she gets around to it.

Stop being so diffident! Start being demanding.
You're fighting for the rest of your love-life - so just how important is it to you, buddy?

Speak to loverofcurves - he had the same issue, used The Program - and now, well, they're not getting divorced any time soon! *EG* His lady has become the Lioness he always knew she was. From zero to 60 in less than 4 months! (yes he gave me permission to use him as a referral)