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Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten
The Program is based upon a gradual increase of intimacy. Take your time, there's no rush.
It will take time to overcome her 'bad programming' but it can be done.
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I plan to do this. I'll let you know, in due course, how it turns out.
I've read what you've written concerning The Program and Body Worship. The only question I have concerns time. When we've exchanged massages before, or even when we've done sensate focussing, or a variant of it, we've always specified how long each 'turn' would last. Maybe that isn't appropriate for what you're suggesting, and it will be obvious when to move between stages; but in very approximate terms, what would you say might be a reasonable period of time to spend on 1, 2, 3 and 4; or to get from 1 to 4?
This is for a 'beginner', who's main worry is that his wife will get bored, start yawning, and half way through, remind him the rubbish needs putting out the next day.