[EvilEvilKitten]

Excuse me - but fellatio/cunnilingus is NOT the issue here!

As your wife reaches the end of her reproductive period, her Catholic "sex is only for reproduction" is coming back to haunt her and ruin your mariage. If you two do not get with a GOOD sex therapist, she will gradually stop doing one act after anoother until you two aren't having any sex at all.

Also involved is the idea that now she cannot have children, she is "less of a woman" which is what that "hairs on her chin" statement really meant. All subconciously, of course.

Naturally you want sex and various acts thereof - and so does she - she is just having a difficult time reconciling the two conflicting messages. Therefore - off to the sex therapist with you!

(please note: as her hormones change, she will actually desire sex more than ever before - the guilt over this can and will destroy your marriage if she cannot get this resolved.)