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Old 04-19-2009, 12:44 PM
Bouledoux Bouledoux is offline
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dlb,

Sound advice.

A dilute version of your paragraphs 4 and 5 are what I'm currently doing, with occasional lapses, when I can't resist reminding my wife how great it would be if oral sex came back on the menu, because I imagine if I don't, she will think I've lost interest. These reminders are getting less frequent, though.

It's not just fellatio. I think I actually miss cunnilingus more. You seem to have a statistical bent: do the majority of waves dislike being given oral sex, and bar their husbands access?

I'm not much taken with the idea of getting oral sex on the side. I've noticed, though, that when I'm with (which could mean talking to someone I know or simply glimpsing a stranger on the bus) women these days, whereas once, when younger, I might have briefly fantasised about living with them, and than, later in life, about having intercourse with them, now I just speculate about how oral sex might be.

However, so far, I've only ever done any of these - lived with, had intercourse with, and enjoyed oral sex with - my wife.

Bouledoux
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