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Two separate issues:
1. Children. I have heard it explained that women who have children later revisit and wonder what might have been if they had focused on career instead; those who forego children, wonder what might have been with children. That is what the movie, Turning Point. was all about. And a lot of other literature, myth and folktales. My fiance and I decided no children. He died before the marriage but I have followed through, to an extent, on our plans. Now I am too old to have children. We make choices; we live with the results. That is your personal decision and you can change your mind (and husband) if you choose.
2. Lying. I am with the Bad Cat. If he lies about this stuff today, what will he lie about in ten years? You still have choices but as time passes, those are limited.
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Brandye
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