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Originally Posted by Vian
its really not so simple as him learning what works for me. The problem is more that *I* don't know what works for me. I can mastrubate to climax, but only in ONE specific way, and it takes a LOT of effort, to the point my arm and wrist hurt or I get too tired and give up. He has brought me to orgasm twice (we haven't been together all that long) without any help from me other than telling him not to stop when he finally hit it right. But all too often I don't even want to bother because I know it will take so long and its so much effort it doesn't even seem worth it to me.
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Vian I was divorced, 26 and had 2 kids by the first time a man had given me an
orgasm during sex and before marriage I had plenty of guys try.
It is more of a mental thing then a physical thing. and I do believe a peircing will not help at all.I feel you have to train your brain and be very relaxed.
I am now reaching 42, and have multiple orgasms. I have had a clitoral
peircing for 3 years, which does enhance my senitivity but is not the reason for it
If you rid yourself of the negativity which I am seeing especially in your last sentence, read all the wonderful posts here, listen to what Doc and some other very good people say and learn to let go .. You will get there....
Don't Give up.. Practice makes perferct
