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its really not so simple as him learning what works for me. The problem is more that *I* don't know what works for me. I can mastrubate to climax, but only in ONE specific way, and it takes a LOT of effort, to the point my arm and wrist hurt or I get too tired and give up. He has brought me to orgasm twice (we haven't been together all that long) without any help from me other than telling him not to stop when he finally hit it right. But all too often I don't even want to bother because I know it will take so long and its so much effort it doesn't even seem worth it to me.
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