Kitten, it is not so much what guys want, it is what your guy wants that matters. Each of us has preferences for this or that and how they are accomplished or where the emphasis is placed. While oral stimulation and a hand job are both pretty much done the same way, each person has individual likes when it comes to technique--and for what he wants now/next. Ask him.
Making love is a partnership. It is not what we do to each other; it is what we do with and for each other. Explore and learn together.
Here is
a good article found in
the Index.
The article contains a lot of helpful information. Read it together or separately, discuss it with your partner, and then go on an adventure!