Thank you very much for your reply and advice. Brandye, if it wasn't for the fact that he is very loving (now put aside not doing anything household wise lol) and attentive in other ways then I would certainly agree with your hint. The act of sex itself is the only thing missing here. He will still do things like playfully grab a hold of me in passing one another, kiss me like it's the first time, etc. compliments me on occasion, not too much but not too little either. That's what keeps me going, and fact is, we aren't living together yet like you may have assumed. He recently asked me to though and I had all intentions of doing it, but I think I do need to make a bigger impact with my words and questions regarding the entire situation before I do anything. And now as I'm typing this, he calls and says he has a job interview next week...and coincidentally, made a few sexual comments before hanging up. So we will see tomorrow when we spend the weekend together. If all else fails, I guess I can learn to live dominatrix-style and demand he do it
Thanks again you 2