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Originally Posted by MSMhajri
Hey guys,
I feel that my penis doesn't get the full erection recently. and while having sex with my gf sometimes it doesn't stand and sometimes it does.
Erections come and erections go. In addition, they seem to have a mind of their own. Your experience until recently has no doubt been with Spontaneous Erections that happen all day long. These are triggered by all manner of sensory inputs like seeing an attractive girl, photograph, smells, hearing something, or simply having an active imagination. Shucks! we can become erect just by having someone brush up against us!
When it comes to fooling around and making out with a girl ninety nine times out of a hundred our erections will feel much stronger than when we masturbate. In fact, it is not at all unusual to feel like our penis cannot expand any further and will burst when we get close to having a climax. This is the result of our becoming aroused to a much greater degree than when home alone and is the result of our emotional connection with the girl as well as all the pheromones (chemistry) and "sparks" flying around between us. Have you experienced your penis feeling like this?
When a penis either looses an erection after having stood tall and proud for quite a while, chalk this up to simply becoming tired for no better explanation. A guy can usually regain his erection after a brief respite and continuing to do more making out and Foreplay.
i heard that depends on the feeling how am comfortable
When a penis fails or only becomes partially erect, this is usually just a result of nerves. The cure is to learn to relax and become comfortable with each other and not make any demands on yourself.
and i also heard that because of the hand job. So, I was just wondering is the hand job affects on the penis?
Well...be they hand jobs, blow jobs, or regular ol' masturbation, done one or more times during the day, strong erections can sometimes fail to happen for a few hours. Being distracted or just not being mentally "into it" can sometimes be enough to keep a penis from becoming fully erect.
and if i do that everyday does that influence as well?
You can climax as many times a day as your body can handle. Each boy is different; each day is different. It does not matter whether you climax from masturbating one or more times a day, or if one or more come from a girl's efforts. You cannot masturbate too much, although, at some point your body will simply refuse to respond for several hours. The key is balancing pleasure vs. stress relief.
and could you please tell me what's the hand job effects.
thanks
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There are three effects; first, masturbating too many times during a day (or two) can make achieving a subsequent climax a bit more difficult; second, that subsequent orgasms will tend to be less strong thus a bit less pleasurable; third, that you (or your girlfriend) can rub the skin raw if not careful or if not using a lubricant.
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ERECTION problems
Top Line: Erections come and erections go. A penis seemingly has a mind of its own.
Boys and Masturbation / Got questions?
There are generally three concerns fellas have regarding erections:
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