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how does the spouse come to find this "proof"
if they were digging for clues, then the pain they found is their's to bare.
now, if the cheater reveals themselves, then they are just selfish and mean.
If the cheater is careless with evidense, then they are disrespectful.
I am enlightened, and my mate is very traditional. I stay with her, and it is good for her. Yet I am spirited and MUST play, or leave. SO- I take good care to meet her needs in the bedroom, and then I LIVE MY LIFE.
BUT-- if she goes diggin thru my phone, or breaks into my e-mails.... THEN SHE CAN FEEL THE PAIN SHE FINDS.
just my .02
live, live well, and let live.
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