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Originally Posted by CrazyJenny
If you've read my other threads so far, you have an idea of my situation....
I'm still a virgin, but I'm really interested in my current girlfriend. And since I'm still learning about the fact that I'm bi (and I'm unsure whether I'm a lesbian or not because I've never been attracted to a man), I'm wondering what it feels like to have sex with another woman.
1. How does it feel when she licks you..... down there?
2. Other than the licking thing, what else is there (if it's just the tongue, it sounds kind of boring)
3. Can you catch STD's from lesbian sex?
4. Since I've only been with my gf for less than a month, should I go for it? (I know she wants me).
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1. This is kind of subjective, as I'm sure the way your partner touches you, with any body part, will highly depend on the partner. I've had a few, and no other female, or male has ever sent jolts through my body the way my girlfriend does. It's the most amazing feeling in the world.
2. There's a lot of things lesbians can do besides oral. My girlfriend really enjoys strattling one of my legs (tribadism) and me rubbing her clit w/ my leg until she cums. It's actually quite enjoyable. Not all women can orgasm this way though. I personally, can't get off this way. I typically need more stimulation. It gets me hot and bothered, but to finish the job, she normally ends up going down on me or fingering me, or using a strap on.
3. You run some of the same risks as straight sex. If you know your parter well, you should feel more comfortable, but always take precautions.
4. That's really a question you and your girlfriend have to answer. If it's something you are comfortable with, go for it. If she's someone you could see yourself with for a long time, make it memorable. I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years, and for the first few weeks of our relationship, we teased eachother incessantly, texts, IMs, pics, quick fingerings (with clothes on), here and there, until one weekend, we got a hotel room. I could hardly keep from ripping her clothes off before we were even in the door. The first time she went down on me, I was a little nervous, but it was extacy. She was amazing. We had the whole weekend, and that first night, we had sex on and off for 14 straight hours (between showers and eating). Point is, we never even left the room.
If you dig her a lot, make it special. You won't regret it. Thinking about our first sex romp together still sends tingles up my spine. We actually are getting a room at that same hotel for our anniversary this summer.
