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Originally Posted by lov2lickit23
why do men find butch no soft butch or any masculine females to be daunting? do you feel like were trying to still your women?
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If it wasn't obvious that English wasn't your first language, I'd be all over you for this post. Instead I'll say that the more your English improves, you'll likely receive far more help with your questions. Both in other members understanding your questions, and in turn, you understanding their answers.
To answer your question, it's fear I suppose. Fear that all masculine women are gay, and are trying to steal their girlfriends or wives.
Now, to go on my own little rant:
It's always seemed to me to be the other way around. Anytime I've seen a lesbian couple where one woman was "butch", she was very protective of her "feminine" girlfriend, with around men. I always assumed it was penis envy. And that always seemed sad to me. I mean, if you're a lesbian, and your girlfriend is a lesbian, and you feel the need to "protect" your girlfriend from men, then you must not trust your girlfriend very much. Of course I'm stereotyping lesbian couples, and by no means am I suggesting that all are the way I describe them. I'm just going on what I've seen regarding those lesbian couples who seem to play the "masculine/feminine) roles.