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It is sad to read stories like yours aliceyalice. If I read your post correctly, he was OK until you told him your fantasy? If so, in my opinion, neither of you are to blame for what is happening between you. It is just that the two of you have different needs and did not sufficiently talk about your own need and likes before. I am sorry that he seems to be over reacting in a negative sense to your revelation. If you still thing the relationship is worth saving, try to get the two of you into marriage counseling... preferable with someone with a lot of experience in sex therapy.
Good luck my dear.
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