[LickMyGamete]

The more I think about this, the more ridiculous the fact I'm actually contemplating it sounds. I don't think it's controlling trying to secure the life I was promised with my wife, when she said "I do." My father was an abusive alcoholic, my wife knows this and allows me only to drink when we're out for dinner, or when she says it's okay for me to get a 12 pack (which is rare). I don't see that as being controlling on her part, I see it more so as protecting our investment (marriage). The same goes for the marijuana - I want to have kids with her, I want to explore life with her, where does smoking marijuana fit in this?

Anyway, that's my rebuttal to the controlling part..

edit -- and it's not like she has her heart set on it. I'm going off a simple comment she made about 2 weeks ago. It's not like she's fixated on the idea..