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> I have had 7 partners. Only 2 have been able to make me orgasm.

Each of us is responsible for our own orgasms, we do not give them away to our partner. All any of us can hope for is to help him/her have them. To help the process along, teach him how by taking his fingers over a few sessions and move them according to what works for you until he learns to mimic your specific method. The same works for him with you.

There are several articles listed in the Index on whys and how-tos of the female orgasm. There is also much discussion on how to stimulate each other successfully. One of the Keys is in providing feedback--verbal and non-verbal. Read up on this subject.

Lastly, it is important to understand that few sexual positions provide the constant ongoing contact between a woman's pieces-parts and her partner's sufficient to generate the required friction necessary to trigger an orgasm. So, what a knowledgeable, skilled, caring usually does is to reach around and finger his partner while stroking away.