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I have to agree with the OP. I think you are doing the right thing... You are VERY young, I'm not much older than you. I have been in a few relationships and I still don't know what I want completely. I have some ideas of the things I definitely do NOT want in a man. It sounds like he might even be willing to wait around for you, if that's something you even want. Of course, who knows how long he can wait and how long you will need to start dating others and experiment. No matter what you will have to give the new dating some time, I'm sure it will be difficult getting anywhere near as comfortable to someone new, but you should stick it out until you have a better idea of what you want...
As for luvmakin, I don't think he would have been the right guy for you if he did change so much the second time around. People are still maturing and learning who they are at this age, he was bound to change in some ways (and you too!) I would take it as a good thing that you found that out before you were married to him or something.
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