[luvmakin]

So i have been with my bf for about 4 years now. I lost my virginity to him and we've lived together etc. we've always had a problem with our sex life. I enjoy having sex with him, not only for the pleasure but also because it makes me feel like I am wanted and he is attracted to me. Every woman wants to feel that way from their man. He has never really tried to initiate sex much and we've talked about it since i hate having to be the only one ever initiating it.. Just makes me feel like if I never initiate sex we wouldn't be having it. We talked about it a couple of times and hes told me a few times he just doesn't have a sex drive and that he thinks hes just not attracted to me. =( we talk about things and then later he tells me that he just said it out of anger and that i am beautiful and he really has no clue why things are the way that they are. I know he doesn't enjoy the sex much because he's told me that.. possibly it gotten routine?? I still don't know whether or not to believe that he is unattracted to me, especially because he gets very jealous and we've been together for so long. Our relationship is perfect we are very much in love with each other but i'm just getting frustrated because I feel hopeless that he can ever be pleased and start WANTING sex rather than just doing it because i'm initiating it or complaining that we never do it. Breaking up is not an option because we are so in love i need a solution to this. has anyone ever had this problem? what should i do???