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Okay - I answered the other one - but which is it? FWB or fuckbuddy?
The man's a LOUT - after that - you need no further information.
Louts are ok for fuckbuddy status but NOT for FWB status.
NEXT - "somehow" we all ended up in a 3some?? What are you? 13? Either you wanted sex or you didn't. Stop running and hiding as if your sexuality was something that requires covering up. EMBRACE your sexuality. EXPLORE it and REJOICE in it. But never again "somehow", or "if it was meant to be" or "one thing led to another" - be so damn mealy mouth, wishy-washy, "I'm only 13" about sex again.
Have I made my point yet?
NEXT - this man is a lout, fine. We have determined that but why do you automatically assume that ALL men are? That's stupid. Just as stupid is thinking ALL women are going to be wonderful lovers just because they're female. They aren't.
When it is sex - it is on a person by person basis.
Stop relying upon other persons to tell you if this guy/relationship is right for you. Learn to recognise that even asking the question indicates that you should be seriously considering moving on. Happy, fulfilling relationships leave no room for doubt. You have 'radar' use it and trust it.
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