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Many young men have performance anxiety. Loosing an erection at the moment when penetration should occur is not that unusual among the inexperienced.
Don't pressure him. Find out what turns him on the most-could be dirty talk, a certain kind of behavior, the way you wear your hair, the way you undress or not- and do those things for him.
Also learn to be proficient at fellatio. More than 99% men think fellatio is the greatest thing in the world. That will probably keep him up.
Try saying, "Take me, make love to me " or something even dirtier. That usually helps.
If none of this combined with patience can lead to the two of you having successful coitus then he needs to see a sex therapists. This is what they specialize in.
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