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He is very immature and Doc pointed out some important aspects. In my experience, every time someone followed something with 'but they're so good in bed', they were in a poor relationship. It is infinitely easier to work with someone towards terrific sex than it is to form a bond and relationship with both partners on the same level. I think it's silly for people to be willing to put up with all the hassle, frustration, and pain of poor compatibility with another in regards to personal interests, goals, maturity, and criteria for happiness for someone who is very satisfying in bed from the start.
You're what, 20? There are so many people out there for you to choose from that would jump at the chance to be with a girl who truly enjoyed sex and knew what she wanted. You'll run into some who are intimidated that will frustrate you but there are plenty who are seemingly dull in day to day activities who would work nonstop to blow your mind once the clothes come off. If there's a good bond, then mistakes aren't a big deal and end up being something to laugh about down the road after you've left each other in drooling heaps unable to form words on the bed.
No, you're not wrong. I would get rid of him or at the very least, firmly say what Ephemera mentioned and then choose what to do on his reaction.
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