Posted this in the above sub-forum...as I'm not sure where it fits exactly. Old-ish FWB relationship. Mods, if you have certain crieria for each forum..if tyou could delete one of these
My partner and I have been together for a while now, and recently we've been fighting to no end. In our most recent fight (currently progressing) we've reached one of those ugly calms where you can feel the tension off of everything.
How it started: I got a call at around 3am from him while he was drunk asking for a bj. That wasn't a problem. The problem was: he was surrounded by people whom I've known for quite a while. My friends have no real idea of my activities unless I discuss it with them, but they do know that this is a "Fuck buddy" arrangement. I was very mad the next morning once I thought about it, as it felt like I'd been demeaned. We're good friends, but he hasn't treated me like a slut ever. The question I got from him was basically "Heey, I'll be in the area tomorrow, want me to stop by so you can suck my cock?", in this room full of people who know me.
I expressed that I disliked what had happened, and the response I got was "get off your high horse". I want him to aknowledge what made me mad, and why I was mad about it. Instead of having any kind of understanding on his part, I find myself once again apologizing when i feel like I've done nothing wrong.
Was I wrong to be mad about the situation?