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Many, probably most ,young men cum quickly during sex. The flip side of that coin is that they also tend to be able to recover and obtain another erection quickly, or they simply retain their erections after ejaculation.
Much can be learned by observing the way your body behaves after orgasm during masturbation. If you stay erect after a masturbatory orgasm you can and will after fellation or coitus. Also see how long it takes to get hard again after ejaculation.
One thing you need to realize is that the more turned on you get your woman the sooner she is likely to reach orgasm during coitus.
If you are involved in coitus and reach orgasm, continue thrusting. That may be all that is needed for her to climax too. Relax. You might stay hard and be able to continue. If not, don't stop working on her. Continue kissing and caressing and performing cunnilingus. You will probably get hard again soon
The squeeze technique-works for some, but not all. Whenever I tried it it just pushed me over the edge to come.
You might find you have more success with the grunt technique- stop thrusting momentarily if orgasm is impending. GRunt and use the same muscles as if you were trying to pass a rather difficult turd. This will relax the muscles related to ejaculation including the pubococcygeus muscle which you do not want to be tensed up if you are trying to delay.
Practice this technique often during masturbation. You may find that you can eventually ejaculate independently of orgasm. This relieves the pressure in your prostate and allows you to continue thrusting considerably longer.
If during coitus you partner asks what the grunting is about tell her. She shouldn't mind-and if she does...screw her!
Try not to worry about how long you take to come while you are actually in the act. This will only make control more difficult.
Don't forget to give her lots of attention during foreplay, during coitus and during afterplay.
One more thing to remember. As men get older they begin to take longer to reach orgasm yet women, as they get older, begin to reach orgasm more quickly in general. SO it only gets better!
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