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PART 2--

A lubricant, saliva or other, is recommended when caressing the Glans as the slipperiness makes the process easier and more enjoyable. Of course, the same thing can be said of the shaft, although, this is not as necessary.

What you do and how you do it changes a bit each time and from moment to moment in reaction to what you feel. Experiment and as they say: "go with the flow". Oh! and speaking of "the flow", what can or should be done with the ejaculate?

When climaxing the ejaculate (semen and sperm) can fly out with tremendous albeit diminishing force to land on your stomach or chest, your pubic mound and hair, or wildly go off and land perhaps somewhere you do not want it to. If it lands on your body, you can wipe it up with a tissue or a damp (wash)cloth, afterward. I always preferred to use a small jar like the kind marinated artichoke hearts come in. It is easy to position it near the penis and to "shoot your wad" into it. The jar can be washed out afterward, or put away in a nightstand to be cleaned later. A side benefit is that the rim of the jar's opening can be used to rub the Frenulum in order to jump start a climax. Try it with both a dry and a wet rim to determine which you prefer.


MULTIPLE ORGASMS--

Multiple orgasms are possible during a session. Each of us has a recovery period that varies depending upon age, sex drive, and how we are "wired". This can be a few minutes for a post pubescent, to typically ten to thirty for older teens and adults. During this "refactory period", you cannot have another orgasm. During this period, you can continue to caress yourself in order to keep your arousal alive. Once you determine what the length of your particular recovery period is you can then work up another climax if you choose. The maximum number a person can enjoy in a day is also based upon the above criteria. If you try to masturbate more than your body is willing, it will simply refuse to respond for several hours. Within a period of about seventy two hours, climaxes will be weaker and less intense, so managing stress and pleasure can be important if you want the return of a full force climax sooner than later.


Enhancements to Elusive Orgasms--


* Male masturbation can be simple and straight forward by simply getting down to the business at hand.

* Climaxing or achieving an orgasm can often be enhanced or the sensations made more intense by incorporating other forms of caress.
+ One enhancement is to begin by turning yourself on before taking your penis in hand by caressing your body and its erogenous zones, first, and continuing to do so while stroking.
+ A person's skin is his/her largest sexual organ. Learn where the most sensitive areas are and caress them throughout the process. One or both nipples and the surrounding pigmented areas (Areola) turn on and become extremely sensitive when we are very highly aroused. Learn which one is more reactive and fiddle with it as you do other things. Your nipple(s) will augment the sensations felt in your penis and elsewhere.

* Two other techniques for climaxing easier and enjoying stronger orgasms are described, below. These are particularly useful when an orgasm is proving to be elusive and difficult to trigger, such as a second, third, or fourth session in a day.

These can be done individually or in combination while masturbating. The scrotum is rich with nerve endings. It feels good to scratch the skin, it feels good to knead the skin, it feels good to cup and hold the entire "package".


SCRATCHING THE SCROTUM--

Ball playing has various aspects to it. The first is to massage the scrotum and to also gently pinch a piece of skin between thumb and finger while kneading. The second is to scratch an area of the skin using one of two types of scratching. The first type is to use a "come here" movement of the fingers; the second is a "back off" movement, or the reverse action. The finger nails will gently scratch the surface of the skin and provide two distinct sensations depending upon the type of finger action used. You can do one or more of these actions to different parts of the scrotum's sac. To scratch, just pick up a piece of the sac. and stretch it between your thumb and fingers, then scratch in between.

Scratching is soothing, calming, and also stimulating. Scratching can also be done when taking a break from stroking if you want an intermission of sorts.

How you proceed depends a lot on the state of the scrotum. As you know, it is the structure that contains the sperm "factory". As such one of its rolls is to maintain a proper operating temperature within. It does this by changing its size. When the environment is cool, the sac contracts hugging the body closely in order to maintain the necessary warmth. When the environment is warm or hot, the skin of the scrotum relaxes and expands its size many times so that the testicles will drop down into a cooler environment, away from the body's core. The scrotum will extend or contract automatically in response to the adjacent air temperature. The scrotum can assume and maintain any size in between a full dangle and a tight hug.

A tight scrotum feels quite different from a relaxed one. When the sac is taut, the skin is wrinkled or corrugated, caused by the excess skin being folded up. When the sac is fully extended and the balls hang low, it feels more malleable and softer. Because the testicles are at the bottom, you have a lot of skin to play with without having to involve them or be concerned about handling them inadvertently.

No matter what state you find your scrotum, you can have fun with it and with your balls.

When the scrotum is compact and tight against the body, you can work the same magic. In all positions, begin doing what feels good in the moment, switching techniques if or when you want.

It is much easier to involve one or both testicles when they are hanging low, away from the body. You can encircle the scrotum with your fingers or hand pinching off one or both testicles.

So, how are doing up to this point? Is your climax just moments away? Consider combining all of the above with what follows in the next section.**


PLAYING BALL--

What you can do with one or both testicles, later, when you are right on the brink of an orgasm is to take one in your hand and gently squeeze it. Now, guys, before you go "OH GAWD, NO!", please understand the method to the madness, so to speak. There is a fine line between pain and pleasure and it is this condition that can be arousing when done properly. Done incorrectly, it will be the cause of a major male nightmare!

Here's the key: The testicles are much more sensitive to impact than pressure. Ordinarily, when we are not aroused, a gentle squeeze will cause a mild although annoying little ache. When this is done when we are very aroused, this same ache is perceived by the brain to be extremely pleasurable.

** It is this ache that can be used to jump-start an orgasm, particularly an elusive orgasm like the second or third in a multiple string during one session, or, the second or third session that day.

Here's the trick: Practice squeezing a testicle when you are not aroused and stop when you are causing this annoying ache that has yet to become really painful. You do not want to do that. Then note how much pressure you are applying so you can duplicate this when you are approaching an orgasm that is being difficult to trigger. Squeeze when you are at the brink or trigger point of an orgasm. This same ache will then be perceived by the aroused pleasure center in the brain to seem pleasurable and it will augment or intensify those sensations you are experiencing from your other caresses being done at the same time and also trigger your climax. ***


PROSTATE MASSAGE TIPS--

*** Massaging the prostate gland has the same effect, although there is no pain involved--just the "after burner" kick to whatever else is being done to caress you at the same time.

The prostate gland is located about two inches inside and along the front wall just beneath the lining. It feels like a small walnut-shaped protuberance or bulge.

A prostate massage can be done anytime; however, the effects are best and most intense when you are very aroused and nearing the trigger point of your orgasm. A prostate massage will help jump start an elusive climax and it will also greatly intensify the sensations you are experiencing from any other caresses being done at the same time.

If you want to help trigger an orgasm and give it a tremendous boost then try either of these two orgasmic intensifying methods. If you are having difficulty climaxing for whatever reason, or this is the second or third orgasm in a multiple string, you will find that either method will be a big help.


GOING INSIDE--

Here are the keys:

1.) Use plenty of lubrication.
2.) Tease the outside of the anus with a finger, first, even before being very highly aroused.

Condition the anus to accept a finger or dildo being inserted.
RELAX. A person will sometimes tense up the sphincters when a finger or dildo is "probing" around the anus.

Make a conscious effort to relax as the finger or toy applies pressure against the opening--
3.) Insert a well lubricated finger, first, before anything else.
4.) Use pressure. Never attempt to shove, jab, or poke anything inside.
5.) The sphincter muscles inside the anus along the passage way are used to matter moving outward, not inward. So, be gentle. The finger is also used to "condition" them so that they will let a finger or toy in, first.

Any time pain is felt, you should stop and reapply some lube and spread it to the affected area. You never want to cause pain or discomfort and to chafe the lining. Anal play should be pleasurable and pain free!