Set up
OK I'll role with your terminology. What so many women
and men don't understand is that effect use of lingerie requires set up. I come home, don't see anything different until I go to bed where I can't see the lingerie anyway and I ask-what's the point. The lingerie experience is about him enjoying you walking about, sitting, doing things, preferably for him while wearing lingerie. What's in it for you? You get to feel extra sexy knowing that he is totally into checking you out as you tease him. And then there's the sex.............