With respect to your public opinion and in disrespect to your sense of immorality, reading these lines brings about tangible proofs of human’s step back in corrupt-minded by what the vehicle of TV shows, movies etc…are projecting to the society awareness…This is horribly shocking to reading such lines, more especially at discovering a certain way of learning (newly learnt) developing skills (that help us determine what we like and do not like in a person. By dating lots of people (even at the same time) we expose ourselves to lots of likes, dislikes, quirks, interests, morals, values, goals, mannerisms, ideals, etc., et cetera, etc.) etc… OMG…!
I’m very sorry to have to express it in that way, but this is a gross shame about this philosophy and is further devoid of any sense of morality to the extent of being criminal and odious to attempt sacrificing loads of innocent hearts to the benefit of personal knowledge interests…!
Whatever the reply could be, experiences, developing values, discovering people can be made without engaging in dating…Socializing is the perfect platform for that…There’s absolutely no need any to venture in dating to get to know someone…!
The point is there, anyone willing to get into serious relationship has to show serious undertakings as well…this is not the place nor the area for trials at random…people are not your cans of beer when empty you may throw away vulgarly…! Shame on you!
I’m outraged by reading this: “Because dating by its very design is not and should not be exclusive, and there is no legal contract, there can be no "cheating". And what about the moral obligation to sentiments involved therein then? Even animals are instinctively able to choose one and same female to procreate and being faithful to its congener…!!! Why humans can’t then….?
Tracking commonly on the same road is very important to materialize marriage between the engaged…it starts from a decision of quality and enough determinations to achieve the aim…It’s very, very rare to find the exact matching to live alongside forever…Being aware of, love will then imply sacrifices from both actors just to merge characters, cultures, point of views, differences etc…and this is what makes love something extraordinary and outstanding…The real fight of love resides in then sacrificing some habits, some selfishness attitude by molding it to one of your partner…and this game is mutually played in harmony to satisfy not oneself, but what love requires to get born in between…!
Love isn’t finding each other but to accept each other’s imperfections, weaknesses and qualities…I mean, love is composed of both positive and negative…
The winner of love shall imperatively fight against these fundaments that will lead to true and real love…!
If you want to get married to Mr. Right, start by being faithful and more mature to your approach…Start by being ready for facing reality at trying to discover, exchanging, valuing and listening to your partner…He/she will sense your attempts and deference to this relationship and you may expect from your undertaking to get same in return…there’s no need to get through repeated trials through harmful dating to succeed in your task, but be ready to give and to receive…By taking repeatedly and lengthily to your targeted one may reveal your one…you just have to let the heart speak…! Trust it…love resides there and not in cruel attempts…!