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Old 02-15-2009, 07:49 AM
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Actually you and your husband need to discuss his needs and desires. I'm sure he is worried about how you would react, how you would see him - "less of a man" - and worries that this might destroy your marriage.

All of his concerns are valid.

It is up to you to decide if this is a deal-breaker/marriage-wrecker for you or not.

Actually, all it means is he likes to wear women's clothing every now and again. Well, you wear men's blue jeans, t-shirts, and sweats - so - shrug.

Select nuetral territory - kitchen table - and discuss it with him AFTER you have decided how you feel about this and what you intend to do - stay or divorce.
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