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Old 02-13-2009, 02:08 PM
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> We are friend from 2 year but my problem is that when I want to talk with her on the love topic.

The girl is either not ready for it, or, not ready for it with you.

A two year friendship the two of you should be able to talk about taking your friendship to the next step.

Tell her you would like to date her and leave it at that. Her response will tell you if she is interested and interested in you. Do not talk about loving her or wanting sex. This is much too early for such talk. I can understand how you can have a warm and intense friendship; however, "love" develops after a relationship that I do not believe has been reached yet.

There is also "love" and being "in love" with a person. The first is intimate than just being friends or having a best friend. The second, has to do with affection of the heart. Being in love with a person evokes stronger emotions and for a significant other in a romantic way. If love comes to be, it happens after a relationship develops.
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