[dancingdoc2]

> I don't feel like anyone is really understanding this. We do have foreplay sometimes hours of it before, ...but the problem is even with all that and changing positions he finishes right before I'm climaxing.

It would have helped had you said this in your original post. This is totally different than what you stated.

Very few sexual positions place a woman's pieces-parts in constant contact with the man's pubic mound in order to create the needed friction to build and then trigger an orgasm. What a knowledgeable, skilled, caring, lover will do is to reach around and stimulate his partner's clitoris by hand while stroking. Try that.

A few decades ago, it was all the rage for a couple to try and achieve "simultaneous orgasms". Well, try as everybody did, this usually did not work well. There are only a few positions that offer the needed ongoing contact. Here are three:

1. Woman Superior (Cowgirl)
2. "X"
3. "Y"
The difference between 2 & 3 are in the positioning of the legs. Both people lie on their sides facing each other yet at somewhat of an angle. In the first the legs cross; in the second all four pretty are pretty much together.

I recommend clicking on the site's Home Page and then going to the links for all of the illustrated animated sexual positions and looking at them.

Etiquette dictates that a man should help his partner achieve an orgasm, first, then last. In between he/they/we can climax as many times as desired and in any time frame. It is nice when multiple orgasms can be close together, although this is not necessary. During your boyfriend's refractory period in which his body recoups and regroups from the previous climax, use this time to continue making out and to have one or more additional orgasms. You most likely can enjoy many; him not so much--usually two to four depending upon age and drive.

Please go to the Index at the top of the main screen and read up on all this stuff. There are many helpful articles.

> right as he's getting ready to cum as he starts pulsating that's when my orgasm builds up before it releases, but he's cums so fast that I'm just in the middle of the climax and don't get to fully release it. He will try to as soon as he finishes finger me to get me to orgasm but it's not the same for me.

OK, well, if my suggestion, above, is not the best for you, try having him continue to stroke or thrust those last few seconds even though he is or has just ejaculated. He should be able to continue just long enough for you to reach a climax. The extra stroking should trigger your orgasm.

Try this and let us know what happens, or does not happen. We may be able to give more recommendations based upon the latest information from you.