[dancingdoc2]

> So what if there is an erection but not a very hard one? Do penises vary in the level of hardness in general?

On an individual basis, not generally, although, a person's erection can be less firm on occasion.

Of course age has something to do with this later in life and I suppose there can be some physiological issues that can affect the firmness of an erection.

I did know a guy once who was in his late thirties who had a nice size erect penis yet it was not very rigid at all. Not that there is any connection, but he had cashew sized nuts, too.