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i understand being shy about being on top, having been there and done that myself. if you are willing to try, though, he will be more than willing to help you learn. what helped me with it was words of affirmation. my boyfriend told me how much he loved it, and kept telling me it felt good and that i was doing great. talk to him about maybe giving you some encouragement verbally while you're trying being on top. just remember though, it's not all about him. not being a "one position pony" (which made me laugh btw) you know the advantages to switching it up. try to be on top for a little bit and then change to something you're really comfortable with, then change back. the more you do it, the more comfortable you will become with it, but you should try it and learn it on your own comfort level and time.
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