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Originally Posted by mascbttminwinc
I'm more or less concerned that I won't be able to "handle" it... but I want to and I want him to enjoy me without me being in pain or scared to death of it. Suggestions or advice...?
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Okay, now I'm curious . . . . just HOW big is this guy?
The sad reality of life is that not everyone is built to have sex with everyone else. If you follow all the advice about anal that's been posted here before (and if you've already accommodated a 7 or 8" penis with no problems you're doing everything right) but are convinced this guy might do damage don't chance it. I've had strong disagreements with other forum members who don't believe anal sex can be done without damaging yourself but it's true there are limits, more than vaginal sex. You can stretch yourself over time, but that isn't a great idea or good for you.
You can gently experiment, but warn the guy up front it may not happen and stop if it's becoming painful. I'm sure he's heard it before.
