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well as a note from someone who was in a similar situation that has now turned into a year and a half relationshio, with a ring on her finger and a baby on the way. When i met my fiance, I was not a virgin but i may as well have been, lost it at 17, got my heart broke by that girl and never had it again till last year and I was 24.
But we were together for 6 months before we were ready to actually try anything, from the very start I told her that I didnt know what i was doing very well and that most of what i did know i had read and heard on the internet, and that if at any point it didnt feel right to let me know. That let her know up front that it may be a little bad at first, even though it wasnt.
That night I just remembered all the things I had talked to her about and heard about and by the time I even touched any of her sacred parts she was already as wet as could be and panting for me. Just the simple things like knowing where else to kiss, and where else to slightly touch just to build up her anticipation and her emotional response.
And she has even told me that what made it even more special for her, was the fact that that night we never actually had sex, it was pretty much just fingering her to a g-spot orgasm and thats it, I was content knowing that she got hers. When i went to sleep that night I was as hard as a rock and had been for 45 minutes solid, but i got my reward later, 3 hours later at 2 am she was still so wet and so horny form the attention that i had given her, that i was woke up by the feeling of her nibbling on my ear lobes (sends me into orbit.) but what I had given her was more than just sex, it was love making session that left her wanting more and better, and there came the reward for me being so unselfish.
So just remember, it's nice to just have sex every now and then. But sometimes what your girlfriend needs more than anything is for you to make love to her, the taking your time to build up the anticipation and create the emotional response so much of her orgasm is mental rather than just physical stimulation.
Hope this long story in some what helps you.
Superdave
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