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A threesome in a long term relationship. First you need to sort this out with your wife. Any time one of the people in a relationship is not completely sure about a 3some it is better to not do it. This is for couples who are secure in themselves as individuals, secure in their relationship, secure in their partners love and secure in their own sexuality.
If it is determined that you both have what it takes my suggestion is that you should not bring in a total stranger. OK, so you might feel uncomfortable doing this with someone in your usual social circle because there can some awkward feelings in the future. The Swinging Lifestyle is present in most non rural areas these days. Get in touch with your local community, attend some events where there are like minded individuals and where there is no pressure on anyone. You might discover someone who is not only willing to help you realize your fantasy, but is already experienced in this and can actually make it more enjoyable for both you and your wife.
One of the positive things that you can get from this sort of trio is that you can pick up some new moves and ideas by watching someone else with your partner.
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