[EvilEvilKitten]

We all want to be meaningful in someone else's life but that does not mean automatic exclusivity. If you're looking for one-in-a-million - your use a net, not a single hook on a fishing pole. I understand you think you have your whole life to find her. You don't - not really, because women's time frame for finding him is much shorter than a man's. She has a limited number of child-bearing years, you see. So she's hunting for him - now, during her 20's and maybe into her early 30's but not much longer than that. Generally speaking, of course. And for all you know - that 'random girl' you passed by may just have been the one for you. You will never know because you did not ask.