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Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten
Do not mess it up. You do not want women to be your friends, you want them to be your lovers. You're not going to get that if you continue acting like a puppy. Believing in a 'soulmate' is to guarantee failure and will seal your status as a beta-male.
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I don't really care what my status is, really. I don't even really care if I have women friends instead of women lovers. Just because I have women friends (whom I do "date", as in going out to dinner, but that's it) doesn't mean that I automatically won't find someone to be exclusive with. I'm not saying you're wrong, I'm just saying that I disagree with that sentiment.
I do believe in a "soulmate", but not in a "high schoolish" sort of way. I believe there is somebody for everybody, but I certainly do not latch on to any random girl who walks by. If I'm in a relationship that doesn't seem to be working, I get out of it. Plain and simple. It's not like I have a goal for exclusivity, but that's what helps me find what I want/need in relationships. Random dating, etc. doesn't do anything for me, and I don't think that's childish.