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dating around is better if you are not particularly sure about who you are yet (you're too young and inexperienced and need to see, feel, and do new things so that you know what you really want). biggest negative with this is that you will never feel loved and will likely become cynical as you feel that other people are all pretty much the same (just wanting sex from a woman's point of view, just wanting someone to pay for stuff from a man's).
exclusivity is better if you know who you are and want to feel the support and love of really knowing someone and them knowing you. biggest negative about this is you can get bored, or you can invest a lot in someone and misjudge whether they feel the same way about you.
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