[Brandye]

I like the way you ask the question. Unlike the typical teen male who wants to "give" her an orgasm, you want to help. Doc gives very sound advice.

Now, the issue: it is with her and baggage from past relationships. The typical male is not too adept in manipulating our hot spots. This improves with age, experience and women giving good guidance. She fell into the hands of those who knew what she wanted better than she. Or so they thought. Most women on this Board have had such partners over the years.

She needs to turn that behind her and have different expectations including that she can pull up her pants and go home at any point. The emotional support that Doc alludes to is your most important contribution. And when you get around to her body, you can tell her directly "I do not have experience; please guide me to what is best for you." I so wish some of my past partners had said some such. I would have had more fun and they would be better lovers today - wherever they are.