me and my fiancee have been active for about 4 years now and i still haven't figured her out!!
a few need-to-know's are:
>keep your nails short, or if you're fond of picking guitar, well groomed and filed. my fiancee said to me once "run your nails along the top of the inside of your mouth and if you think it's rough, i'll KNOW its rough. good advice.
>Cleanliness is close to sexiness- dont go at her with filthy hands. nobody wants this.
>LISTEN!!!- this has been the cause of some rows between me and her. What I think isn't NOT necessarily what's right. often not the case.
now i know not all women are the same but as i get into her just past the 2nd knuckle on my finger, if i move "up" toward the front of her there is a sort of rough patch inside her and she says rubbing that is sooooo good.
but remember- its your finger inside HER. she knows what she likes.