I've given a lot of thought to this over the last few days, which is unusual for me, (I don't usually get caught up in a rolling argument on an internet forum) and I think I need to clarify where I'm coming from.
As much as I hate to admit this, I think one of my character flaws got the better of me in this case, and I decided from reading many of your posts that I just didn't like the way you doled out advice. I thought that you came off as conceited, and if there's one thing I can't stand, it's a know-it-all. I think the best way for people to have better, healthier lives in general, (not just sex) is for people to simply have the courage and humility to find whatever it is that works for them, and the strength to apply it to their lives. Not just take someone else's step-by-step instructions and end up even more frustrated and bitter because they couldn't get a square peg to fit a round hole. Re-reading some of your posts, my new impression of you is of someone who has done just that, which deserves kudos. Far too few people do it. You don't sound like you would be too happy trying to apply my views to your life.
I do however think it's fair to point out that my wife and I haven't followed much of your advice, either. Not much on relationships, and only the more basic advice about sex. Nonetheless, we've been together for five years now and haven't looked back. Proof enough to me that there is a right path for everyone, and they aren't all the same.
I concede that I let my perception of some of your views and your writing style color my judgement and I took it out on your program. For that, I sincerely apologise.
P.S. -- Wifey and I somehow ended up with a whole free afternoon tommorrow, and we've decided that the program would at the very least be a great way to kill all that time. I'll let you know how it goes.
