[EvilEvilKitten]

Okay, but this is getting silly.

Do NOT have a threesome if you're relationship is NOT strong enough for you to stand at the side and let him enjoy her (and vice versa) at will even when you're NOT playing with either of them.

"I don't think he'll ever cheat on me.." --- Jeez! Is everything always ALL about you?

Either you trust and love him or you do not - if you don't then just end it all right here and now; if you do then give over with the jealousy/insecurity nonsense and let the 3-some roll as it will with whom it will.

And another thing..

No more of this "one thing led to another.." Either you control and accept your sexuality or you're a toy used by others. Better to own up and say "I desired her and..." than to just pawn the responsibility for what occured off on fate as if you don't have a brain of your own.

BTW 3-somes do NOT have to be bisexual. Mine aren't. And ALL of my 3-somes involve friends whether FMF or MFM. But then I nothing - least of all losing a man.