[zman]

Hello,

Several years ago I broke my back, resulting in nerve damage to my groin area. Subsequently, my penis has about 30% less sensitivity than before (my own estimate). I have remained sexually active and so thankful that I have been able to please my wife. Nonetheless, it often takes very direct and intense stimulation for me to achieve orgasm. Rarely is intercourse or oral sex enough for me to climax, as masturbation and/or a handjob is the key, if at all. Here is my question:

Is there a sex lube or lotion that provides a certain amount of friction, yet keeps the organ(s) from chapping?

Every lube we have tried actually reduces the sensation for me and is counterproductive. I usually prefer to be stroked "dry" and blood has actually been drawn at times. Over the years, this repeated scaring has caused the skin of my penis to permanently turn a lighter shape in areas. Regardless, I could be in a wheelchair and have no sex life, so I am still a lucky man.


Thanks,
Z-Man.