[Brandye]

kole,

Men never can be certain. Some of our most pleasurable orgasms may appear to be no more than a sigh. We do have a range of orgasmic response from a bit of a twitter to earth shaking and screaming (although I am not a screamer). Sometimes the legs shake; sometimes they do not. The contractions may include the orgasm but are usually the sphincters and other lower abdomenal muscles. So, forget that line of thinking. And most of us are perfectly capable of convincing fakes.

The more important issue in her not being interested in giving you help. My guess is that there is something deeper that is going terribly wrong in your relationship.