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Originally Posted by Vixen916
I wondered from the fellas if and why they enjoy it so much
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I have had a checkered history with anal sex. My college girlfriend was very nearly obsessed with trying it after one of her female friends described
her experience with it, which didn't sound like a rave review to me, but must have to my girlfriend.
Yeah, seriously, I was the one-in-millions guy who had a ready and willing girl.
And we never tried it.
I was afraid (get this) that after all that, I would love it and she wouldn't and I didn't trust myself with the possibility of getting hooked on it and ruining the relationship!
Years passed. Another GF told me she had experience and offered to have anal sex with me, quite readily. We did and it was great.
Now to Vixen's question (how great and why).
VERY great. An intense orgasm followed pretty quickly after penetration (first time excitement and all), but what I remember being most struck by was the warmth of her passage, much more so (it seemed, for no logical reason I can think of) than her vagina had ever felt. Yes, the tight grip was amazing, but not amazing for being tight, but feeling
uniformly tight along my shaft, again, very different from a vagina, in which it has always seemed to me to be snuggest (and noticeably so) at the deepest point of penetration.
This was long before anyone cared about safe sex (the big risks then were tearing tender tissue [her] or getting a UTI [me]), so I ejaculated inside her, and it was very exciting to hear her react to each spurt, as though she (and she claims to have) could feel each one individually, its warmth and its force. THAT felt really good from a cuddling-afterward perspective because [a] I had come a lot from the pleasure and excitement and [b] come HARD (ditto). I wanted her to share MY pleasure and excitement and being told that she had sensed every bit of my ejaculation, including the warmth of the semen (something that I couldn't experience) was deeply (no pun intended) satisfying. Also satisfying, in that afterglow way, was her telling me some time later, after having anal again, that my come took a great deal longer to run from her anus than her vagina (which made perfect sense), which for her meant the experience sort of lingered in a languorous way.
My next GF wanted to try it, too, after learning I had experience with it, but she was not nearly curious enough for her own sake, so she never was able to relax enough to allow me to penetrate her without out-and-out pain, so we never tried a second time. (This leads to my "anal rule," which I have shared with all my buddies across the years: If SHE is curious about it, it'll work; if she's just curious about how it'll be for you with HER, it won't.)
My current SO isn't much into sex at all, really. Sex-negative about oral, squeamish about semen, okay with vaginal intercourse so long as I come inside her, not on her pussy. Her take on anal was "it's an exit, not an entrance," but she enjoys analingus being performed on her and she'll penetrate me with a finger when she's jerking me off. I've told her about my experiences with anal sex, but I'd be shocked if she ever got curious enough to invoke my rule.
In the meantime, I have my memories of those early partners and the sweetness of sharing my pleasure with my first anal partner. When I apologized for loving anal sex with her (I didn't want her to think I didn't love being inside her vagina too!), she calmed me with these words:
"Why [are you worried]? It's all my body, after all, not someone else's [you're enjoying]."
Vixen, hope I've answered your question.