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Of course the flip side is that if you want to ejaculate on her skin, a condom is not going to give you what you want. That said, what is her responsibility in this? At the very least she should be using a vaginal spermicide and the next level would be a diaphragm if she is not on the Pill. Both of you need to take all this seriously and not be so complacent. You are playing adult games and must therefore act responsibly. Your responsibility is to make certain both of you are taking the appropriate protective measures. Do this and you won't have worrisome days and sleepness nights.

Keep in mind that you are in fact playing a version of Russian Roulette; although, with a fully loaded "cannon" vs. a revolver with a single round in the cylinder. Bulletproof the two of you. Anytime semen and precum get within reach of vaginal mucus or the outside entrance of the vagina, sperm can travel inside and up to an egg. A visual inspection to see if any semen is present in her crotch is a start yet not proof that it has not mixed with the mucus or thinned out and continued to run down her skin.