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> i did not go inside of her and was only in her for about a minute
What are you saying? This is a contradiction.
If you and especially she is going to engage in adult activities and behaviors, then you have to act adult and this includes being responsible. Neither of you can be cavalier with regard to how you approach and use contraceptives. Pills work only within a narrow time frame.
Whether you knew she was not (fully) protected or not, your mindset should be that if you do not want to be an unwed father and to have the future course of your life changed, then you need to be using a condom. Teens especially should also use a third line of protection that would have been your second line of protection with this situation and that is for her to use a back up contraceptive--vaginal foam.
Young adults and teens especially are more prone to becoming pregnant than at any other time, so it behooves you to use three forms of contraception all of the time. Look out for and protect #1--you! If the girl does not want to become an unwed mother and to have the future course of her life forever changed, then she needs to look out for #1, also, and use at least one and ideally two forms of contraception.
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Life without dancing?
I don't think so......
The feet may learn the steps;
yet only the spirit can dance!
Dancing is the fastest way to get
a girl alone and into your arms in public.
The Tango smolders and burns. It ignites the
heart, the soul, and yes, the libido.
Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass,
it's about learning how to Dance in the Rain!
Dance as if nobody is watching.
Last edited by dancingdoc2; 11-17-2008 at 10:06 AM..
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