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Old 11-14-2008, 12:14 PM
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Rule One - if you cannot hold her gaze and smile or wink - you're not getting with her.

So to not seem needy - take the edge off beforehand (terrible pun but nevermind) and then go just "to look" and to maybe do a bit of conversation with a likely woman or two. No pressure either way and no expectations either way. Get her name and number before leaving and move along.

The thing is you have to have a life before you can ask someone to share it with you - even if just for a bit - so building a happy and satisfying life comes first. Build your life, own your life, and be comfortable in your own skin - that is all you really need to do.

Relax - this is not The Olympics!
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