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Old 11-05-2008, 07:22 PM
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Can you both live your lives together and be happy as a family? Meaning you and Billy?

I did not believe your parents would be as reactive as you thought. Remember they do want the best for you.

Keep in mind; giving a child to a family member to raise as their own will always come back to you and the child. Meanwhile, you will want to intervene if something is wrong yet would not have that option if you give the child up.

Yes, people have successfully done this as couples. Read Docs post of "residing together" [I think we are ready to live together!! and think through what he wrote. You have time. However, you need to stay calm...much upset is not healthy for your baby.

Also realize Billy does have some say as to where the baby goes if you do choose to put him/her up for adoption.
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